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I really do have too much...

Sure the alcohol had made things a bit hazy, it was loud in the bar so it was hard to make out every word that was said. Did he call me a slut, I’m pretty sure he did... But was it meant as an insult. I couldn’t be sure. He is a sexy man, my eyes couldn’t help but follow him. I have met him a few times but have never really held much of a conversation with him. More drinks and a bit of dancing. Eventually we end up in conversation again. This time it’s more complimentary but it takes a turn. He slaps my face and lets his hand press against my beard for a little while longer. “You need to let go of your baggage,” he says ”your sexy, you could have a lot of fun.”

Talk about a backhanded compliment.

Karelia (Opus 2) - Mono - Under The Pipal Tree

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southernpm
Jun. 13th, 2005 10:25 pm (UTC)
good lord you get into some of the most interesting fucked up unusual weird unique situations. But I have to agree on one point you are sexy and as far as I can tell you *do* have a lot of fun.
sierra_nevada
Jun. 13th, 2005 11:16 pm (UTC)
That sounds like someone who's been rejected a whole lot, and resents it.

Which is to say, he probably has issues.
_kaiser_
Jun. 14th, 2005 02:32 am (UTC)
kinda like 'you'd be a real cutey if you weren't so ugly'.
reminds me of the time that this guy walked up to me and said 'you've got a really big nose. i like guys with big noses.' i think i just glared at him and walked away. (of course in side i was thinking 'eeek! i've got a big nose, i'm gonna run home and cry now!')

walking around telling other people that they have issues and that they'd be more attractive if they got rid of them sounds like an issue in itself. pointing out a persons foibles isn't attractive even if you're trying to be helpful.
cheerfulchaotic
Jun. 17th, 2005 04:01 am (UTC)
I like guys with big noses. But I don't generally point out their nose size before I mention my attraction to them. And often not even then. =)
redarius
Jun. 14th, 2005 02:58 am (UTC)
actually, it was more than a backhanded compliment, it was a direct attempt to pick you up. the inference is easy -- if you loosened up, you could have a lot of fun with me.

it sounds like you were on the business end of an aggressive scorpio, heh.
bete_lumineux
Jun. 14th, 2005 03:34 am (UTC)
If this is who I believe it is... I still haven't mad up my mind concerning exactly what I think of him. I don't think you need to really concern yourself with taken any advice given by him as all that serious or insightful though, even moreso after a few drinks.
cubedtothex04
Jun. 14th, 2005 05:55 am (UTC)
Wow, I just read the story about you and an old friend of yours. I happened to find your journal as I was browsing through the the gay sex tips community. I find it quite awesome that we share the same birthday, although mine is 12 years later. However my brother born in 74 as well. I always find a cool connection through numbers.... :)
monkeyx3
Jul. 1st, 2005 12:01 am (UTC)
Thanks... Sorry it's taken me so long to reply, I am probably the worst LJer when it comes to replying to comments. I read your post about the astrology and jumping in the pool, so true for me too. I’m the guys who says... It looks so blue, blue is a cold color you know... Maybe in a few minutes.
cheerfulchaotic
Jun. 17th, 2005 04:02 am (UTC)
by "baggage" did he mean "boyfriend"? Either way, he, uh, sounds like a bit of a dick.

Though if your pics are anything to judge by, you are cute.
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