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Pretty and pink on the inside

I find it really interesting how getting to know someone really affects how you see them. People who you barely noticed become attractive while others who you thought were very attractive become completely unattractive. There is a guy here at work who I thought was the hottest man to come from razorfish when we merged, now he puts me off so much that if he was naked and begging me for sex, I would have to cover my mouth out of fear of vomit. His looks now seem repulse me.

On the other side of the coin is Craig, who I barely noticed when I first met him, but he is so sweet. I instantly started to find him more attractive. He always has a smile on his face and even though he is straight, married and a dad he flirts with me shamelessly. I’m sure it’s because he knows he can get whatever he wants if he looks me in the eyes then down at the floor while he drags one foot back and fourth in front of him. It’s just so cute to see this straight guy acting like a girl in elementary school, I can’t resist it.

Personality really does affect attraction. It doesn’t matter how pretty you are on the outside if you are ugly on the inside it tends to seep through.

Bright Yellow Gun (HypoFixx) - HypoFixx - Hot Hands: A Tribute to Throwing Muses & Kristin Hersh


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Apr. 1st, 2005 07:46 pm (UTC)
It's why I own this shirt.
Apr. 1st, 2005 07:49 pm (UTC)
It is so true.
And I work in the world of politics where everyone seems to think they are hot. I'm turned off a lot.


Apr. 1st, 2005 08:07 pm (UTC)
Well said.
Apr. 1st, 2005 08:26 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much!
I appreciate the support!

Apr. 1st, 2005 10:22 pm (UTC)
god, i totally know what you mean... ;-) lol. that str8 guy sounds really playful.. i love str8 guys that are that open and cool. but i wonder if he knows you think he's hot? or is he just "being himself" and that attracts you?

Apr. 1st, 2005 10:38 pm (UTC)
It's like that old saying: "Beauty is only skin deep but ugly goes to the bone."
Apr. 2nd, 2005 05:14 am (UTC)
There is a relatively attractive guy who dresses nicely in my Tech Writing class. Monday, I thought he was pretty cute. Wednesday and Today, I realized he wasn't. He had that sneer or look of disdain I see on a lot of people who're good looking and know they're good looking - the look that says "You're not good enough for me."

Total turn off. Not only does it make them look less attractive than they actually are, I don't even want to approach them, b/c I don't want to talk to someone with that mentality.
Apr. 2nd, 2005 02:34 pm (UTC)
That icon is amazing!
Apr. 2nd, 2005 04:10 pm (UTC)
I'll secont, third and fourht that!
When I would meet a group of students for the first time, I would see just unremarkable faces. Then, as their personalities emerget during the semester, I would see people, and some would become more beautiful, and others repellent.

Studies have been done that show that the expressions we wear most often when we are young and middle aget give us our look when we are older. Attractive older people are those whose expressions in earlier life were noble or joyful, while the permanently gloomy and frustrated tend to be uglier when they are oldt. if you are ugly on the inside it tends to seep through.

A really hot guy can become bleah when he opens his mouth to reveal dumb opinions. My dearest friends are all attractive to me.
Apr. 2nd, 2005 05:17 pm (UTC)
I just went into this myself a few days ago Here

I whole heartedly agree with you
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