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4 years.

As of today is Tom and I have been together for four years. we've been through a lot together, he held me after i ran into a crazy man with a gun, he calmed me down during 9/11, he was with me through one of my layoffs and the bankruptcy of crappie marchFIRST. He was laughing with me as we sped through the streets of mexico on a go cart, he screamed with me at the theater during "Signs", and fell asleep on my shoulder when we traveled back from France to London on the Chunnel.

I met Tom at Zeitgeist. When we met it was a kind of rough biker bar. Our friend Yoko who had been trying to get us together for years was having her birthday there. We had been wiggling out of meeting each other for a long time. I brought a date along with me but he was really starting to get on my nerves, wanting to take the relationship a lot faster that I felt comfortable with. (don't expect me to say "I love you" in the first month) I ended up talking with Tom quite a bit that night and when he asked if he could take me out sometime (while my date was in the bathroom), I said sure.

Zeitgeist is now a lot more mellow... it still has the biker element but it's more hipster than biker.


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thisisdavid
May. 25th, 2004 10:40 am (UTC)
Congrats!
(Anonymous)
May. 25th, 2004 11:18 am (UTC)
CONGRATULATIONS!
Keep in mind that four years together does not change the immutable fact that MacBoySF is still a ho. :)

Congratulations, you two. Here's to many more happy years!

-UjinUjin
natsruk
May. 25th, 2004 11:18 am (UTC)
Yay for you two!! I still can't wait to meet him! MOOOOOOOOOO-VIE!
knowyermonkey
May. 25th, 2004 11:25 am (UTC)
nice..happy anniversary
redarius
May. 25th, 2004 12:40 pm (UTC)
nice!
congratulations .. that's good stuff. four years. that's at least fifty years in gay relationship years. you should say it's your silver anniversary. ;)
monkeyx3
May. 27th, 2004 04:38 pm (UTC)
Re: nice!
Thanks! I love it, it's so true. It seems any relationship that last more than 60 days are long term.
redarius
May. 27th, 2004 05:04 pm (UTC)
Re: nice!
heh I know .. Monday is 5 months for me, and everyone seems to think we've been together for years. *shakes head* crazy stuff, yo.
_kaiser_
May. 25th, 2004 01:14 pm (UTC)
hurray for monkeyx3 & bldkitty!
dobledorje
May. 26th, 2004 08:49 am (UTC)
Congratulations! It's good to hear stuff like this :)
orange_groves
May. 27th, 2004 01:08 pm (UTC)
Congratulations. It's wonderful to find someone. And liked the meeting story - happens to so many of us.

Like your journal, btw. Totally cool.
monkeyx3
May. 27th, 2004 04:30 pm (UTC)
Thank you, Thank you and Thank you!
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